Harold Mark Graham

By Speccygeekgrrl

  • Name

    Harold Mark Graham

  • Age

    55 (Birthday: September 19, 1960)


  • Birthday

    September 19, 1960

  • Zodiac


  • Occupation

    Head of IT for Ford

  • Gender


  • Significant Other

    Two ex-wives, no current relationship

  • Family


  • Physical Description

    5'8", brown hair, dark blue eyes, average build, minimal sun exposure, looks exactly like the nerd he really is

  • Personality

    Very nurturing, smart and curious, almost never loses his temper, does have a tendency to get caught up in one thing and put all his focus into it but usually that thing is parenting

  • Sexuality


  • Voice

    Michael Emerson

  • Extra

    Love language: quality time

  • Species

    ISTJ - Logistician


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  • Favorite color?


  • Does your character collect anything?

    Kids, lol

  • Allergies?

    Most opiates, like eight kinds of pollen, fruit with pits

  • Kind of clothing?

    He owns literally 112 neckties. Suits for work, but learned the value of casual clothes while raising toddlers.

  • First memory?

    Playing with his family's border collie, Sarge. Probably four or five years old.

  • Favorite animal?


  • Least favorite animal?


  • What element would they be?


  • Alignment?

    Lawful good

  • Deadly sin that best represents them?


  • Which animal would they be?


  • Socioeconomic level?

    Upper class

  • Socioeconomic level as a child?

    Upper class

  • Blood type?


  • Hobbies?

    Birdwatching, traveling, robotics

  • Special skills / talents?

    Might be a time traveler with the way he balances his professional and personal lives, very good at finding things out (and equally good at concealing them)

  • Patience level?

    Extremely high

  • Regrets?

    He regrets nothing about his children but many things about his relationships with their mothers.

  • Favorite place?


  • Favorite foods?

    Artichokes, lamb biryani, sushi, watermelon

  • Mode of transportation?

    Ford Fusion plug-in hybrid. Early adopter of electric car technology.

  • Pets?

    Four cats

  • Weapon

    Fenced rapier in college

  • Smells like?

    L'Eau Issey Pour Homme and usually a hint of screen cleaner

  • How do they feel about love?

    He's mostly convinced himself that he's satisfied with an abundance of familial love and a dearth of romantic love. This conviction is losing its grip as his children leave the nest.

  • Least favorite color?

    Red LED light, because that usually indicates something's gone wrong

  • Home town?

    Dartmouth, MA

  • Where they live now?

    Detroit, MI

  • Makes a living by?

    Head of IT for Ford

  • Fears or phobias?

    Bad things happening to his children (especially terrified of Tyler Jordan getting into a fatal car accident), snakes, justifiably worried about cancer as it runs in his family

  • Race, ethnicity and nationality?

    White, American

  • Music they listen to?

    Mostly classical and modern orchestral, has a weakness for film scores

  • Bad habits?

    Self-repression, constantly worries about things both major and minor

  • What turns them on?

    Competence, intelligence, ceding control, has kind of a thing about articles of clothing that go around his neck

  • What turns them off?

    Crudeness, intoxication, disrespect

  • Pet peeves?

    It REALLY bothers him when his children use foul language.

  • Personal problems?

    He's effectively blind without his glasses, he hasn't gotten laid since before Olivia was born and he's never gotten off with another man even though he'd really like to

  • Religious and to what extent? Any spiritual beliefs?

    Firmly atheistic, raised his children to be scientifically literate critical thinkers

  • Kind of student if they attend/were to attend school? (e.g. class clown, straight A)

    He was a geek before being a geek was a thing.

  • Random fact!

    Harold has brought his children on vacation to every continent except Antarctica.

  • What ONE item would they take to an uninhabited island?

    A satellite phone so he could call someone to get him off the island

  • Most important person in their life

    Absolutely devoted to his children.

  • What was your character like as a child?

    Very inquisitive, precocious, well-behaved

  • What (if they can) does your character eat?

    Omnivorous, made sure to expose his kids to a wide range of foods from all over the world

  • What is something other people assume about your character?

    That he's a widower

  • Do they like the name they were given?

    He was named after his great-grandfather and he appreciates the heritage of his name.

  • Nervous habits?

    Fiddling with his glasses, blinks much less often when he's nervous

  • Addictions?

    Having lost both of his children's mothers to some form of addiction, Harold takes his abstinence from substance use very seriously.

  • Languages spoken

    English, French, Portuguese, every major coding language

  • Siblings?

    One brother, who he does not get along with at all

  • Wears jewelry?

    Class ring from college (MIT 1982)

  • Have they ever wanted to commit suicide?


  • As a child, what did they want to be when they grew up?

    A scientist

  • Glass half full or half empty?

    Half full

  • Belief in an afterlife?


  • How much do they value money?

    He's always been well off and he appreciates the possibilities that having money permits him to take advantage of

  • Wants to get married?

    Was married twice

  • Wants to have kids, raise a family?

    He wanted kids so badly that he's been faking straight his entire life

  • What's their one big kink?

    A hand around his throat

  • Passive, agressive, or defensive?


  • Cat or dog person?


  • Ranch or Italian dressing?

    Balsamic vinaigrette

  • Are they ticklish?


  • Do they play any instruments?


  • Coke or Pepsi?

    Doesn't drink soda, drinks a lot of tea (hot and iced)

  • Hogwarts House


  • Favorite holiday?


  • Important people in their life

    His children, his parents

  • Would they dare kill someone?

    Absolutely not

  • Body modifications? (Piercings, implants, tattoos etc.)

    None, and appalled that all of his adult children are collecting body mods

  • Can they speak any accents?

    Under stress his southeastern MA accent becomes very apparent

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